4 Offensive Things You Shouldn’t Say During a BBW Hookup [INFOGRAPHIC]

4 Offensive Things You Shouldn’t Say During a BBW Hookup

Dating a big girl isn’t always a piece of cake, especially if you don’t know which words or actions may offend here. But don’t worry, as there are certain things you should avoid saying if you don’t want to make most BBW’s mad.

4 Offensive Things You Shouldn’t Say During a BBW Hookup

 

Dating isn’t easy at all. Whether you like to do it the old fashioned way by going to clubs and parties and trying to pick up someone or you’re that guy who would rather search online for other interesting people, it takes a whole lot of know-how if you don’t want to go home alone tonight – especially if you’re about to have a hot with a big girl.

Although fat chicks are pretty much the same as any other woman, there are still certain things you might want to avoid mentioning if you’re dating a plus size girl. In that name, here are four offensive things you shouldn’t say during a BBW hookup.

1. Fetishizing

Now, there’s no denying that there are a lot of people out there who are so-called chubby chasers or who simply like BBW’s. It’s not like there’s shame in that, but if you are looking for a big girl just so that you can fulfill your fantasies, dating her might just be a bad thing in this situation.

Any girl likes feeling sexually desirable, regardless of her weight. But leading a girl on in the goal of getting to the point where she makes your dirtiest dreams come true is just downright wrong. It’s offensive and it’s a waste of time, so don’t look for someone who’s only up for sex in BBW personals.

2. Pointing Out Her Weight

She gets it. You get it. We all get it – she’s overweight. And while it’s virtually impossible ignoring the elephant in the room (no pun intended), there’s really no need to point out your date’s excess weight right off the bat.

This is the most common mistake people who date BBW’s make. Everyone knows that being fat can cause various problems, but that doesn’t mean you’re allowed to make comments on her body as soon as you lay eyes on it.

3. Denying the Obvious

Just like you’re not supposed to make remarks about a big girl’s weight on the first date, it’s also not recommended to ‘act a fool’ and pretend like she’s not overweight at all.

If there’s anything plus size girls hate, it’s condescension. Constantly insisting that she’s “not fat, but beautiful” or that she’s really this or that “for a fat girl” will only lead to her getting offended, annoyed, or in the worst case, completely pissed off – and that’s not something you want to happen, is it?

4. Bragging

Perhaps you haven’t noticed that you do this, but many men make the mistake of bragging about dating a big chick while they’re on a date with her.

Truth is, you’re not a special snowflake for dating a BBW. A lot of guys are interested in big girls, and while some won’t admit it, there are still plenty of those who openly date fat women and who feel completely normal about it. If you don’t want to offend your BBW date, don’t expect a reward for going out with her in the first place.